They said our friends mirror ourselves. I said, friends mirror different sides of life. Sometimes sad, sometimes happy. Of all the things I have learned in life, I believe I am blessed to have charming and helpful friends. I don’t know why, but all I know is that it takes only solidarity in order to find a kind of friend that suits your way of life. 🙂
Believe it or not, there are different classes of friends. Admit it, we sometimes cross paths with friends who really rocks our lives, but more often than not, there are also who ruins it. So for this week, let me write about the different facets of friends.
- ARTIFICIAL FRIENDS
These friends are the most common of all. They came naturally. They are sometimes called “plastic” because they are the friends who smiles in front of us but stabs us at the back. They are the ones who says the most nicest words but in reality, they lie to us because that’s the way it is.
- CRAB FRIENDS
“Crab” friends constitutes the attitude of crabs. Once you get to the top they will surely let you down. They will pull you down so you can’t go to where you are destined because they want it themselves. These friends works on your back. They will hurt us badly.
- BODYGUARD FRIENDS
The most precious role of these friends is to protect us. In such a way it is good but little by little you will feel that they want you to stick with them all the way. They don’t want you to be friends with others. In other words, they want you to be with them always no matter what.
- MUSHROOM FRIENDS
Just like mushrooms, they only comes to you when they needed your help. But when you need them, you can’t surely find them. That’s how it goes. In your most tough times, you will never find these friends because they are hiding somewhere you don’t know.
- PARASITE FRIENDS
Parasites. They are the ones who only benefit your friendship. They are mostly those who take advantage of your goodness. They will sometimes abuse you and will always want to take part in everything you have. If you have this one, they should have that one also.
- KA-IBIGAN (LOVERS) FRIENDS
They only want to be your friend because you are beautiful and the like. They stay close to you because he/ she likes you more that friends. His/her personal agenda is to be friends with you and after sometime will use that point to make you fall in love for him/her. They love you more than what you think.
- GOLDEN FRIENDS
Golden friends are those people we should let ourselves have. They stay through thick and thin. No matter how long or short times you have, they will keep you in their heart. You can lean on them everytime you need them. They are the best kind of friends. These are the types who can say all the worst and nice things bout you without hurting your feelings because they know they are saying the truth. They are real. We should treasure them because they are the jewels of our life. 🙂
Friends come in different types. But we should always remember that no matter how good or bad our friends are, we should treat them with respect. Love them and shower them with goodness. The most interesting fact about real friends compared to fake friends is they see you through your eyes, because that’s where your soul resides. 🙂 Happy friendly week! 🙂